The American Dream !!!
Life in America. When we are in India we have a whole different opinion about the US. Needless to mention the picture is totally different out here. For example a long lost friend suddenly finds out that you are in "The States". You get a message from him.
"Hey dude...heard u in US now....Must b having fun. How r the girls? Did your accent change?
When are you coming back? ...." and it goes on and on.
Life in US is Good....Bad....and sometimes Ugly. Good in way that you live your own life. You get the feeling of "responsibility". You have Roadtrips ;) which are fun. (I Love driving). You have Air Conditioning everywhere you go.(Not bragging about US.) Education system is a lot better (Grad School). You interact people of all kinds, people from various countries. I feel this is the Best Part. Personally I hardly get to interact with Americans. Especially in Grad school you will have a very less % of Americans.
Coming to the Bad part. People forget that here you have to cook your own food, wash your own dishes, vacuum your apartment(which I never do), wash your own clothes, do groceries etc. Now how in the world do people manage to do so I never understood. You miss Good Home Made Food. Yes, you have Indian Restaurants, but you dont want to spend much money there. You miss family.
Sometimes it even gets Ugly ! Worst thing about US is the Medical Cost. Say you have some medical problem. Unlike at home there is no one to take care of you here. Other than the problems you can think of, one biggest problem is, cost of medication. Yes you have insurance which covers most of the Bills. But insurance does not cover everything. You do some medical tests and later you find out that you get a bill of an obscene amount of say 5000$. Even if insurance covers 80%, you would still have to shell out 1000$ !
Everyone in US is busy. If you are not busy in the US then I dont know what to tell you. Long story short, you are here for a reason, which is very significant compared to the small problems you face here. This thought helps you move forward. There are times when you feel sick of your life, but there are also times when you have so much fun in a day that you could have spread it over a month. Doing research is a very boring job, if you dont know what you are doing. Sometimes...when you really understand it, it gets exciting for a very short period of time.
I am running out of time now. Summer Semester going on. Most of my time goes into Research work. Life is very routine and boring , especially in Summer .



